| Want to know how to win your ex back after a | | | | Open yourself up to good things |
| year? Break ups happen even to the best of | | | | Keep a positive aura to attract all sorts of good |
| relationships. It is just natural. However, it does | | | | things in your life. Avoid griping and thinking ill of |
| not mean the end of things. Here are some things | | | | your ex. Let go of any existing resentments. It is |
| to help you bring back what once was. | | | | a negative and futile endeavor that serves to |
| Stop obsessing about the breakup. | | | | benefit no one. Stop harping about how things |
| Stop thinking about it. The more you think about | | | | should have turned out between the two of you |
| the hurt that you felt about the whole break up, | | | | and hook up with some of your old friends. |
| the needier and sadder you get. Look past that | | | | Experience just how rewarding life can be just by |
| and see what lies ahead of you. | | | | looking at the bright side. |
| Accept things for what they are | | | | Maintain friendly relations with your ex |
| Face facts: you guys broke up. You can't operate | | | | Make like a diplomat and keep things pleasant |
| under the illusion that you are still together. This | | | | between you and your former partner. The only |
| part of your relationship is dead. Learn from your | | | | way you can hope to reconnect with your ex is |
| mistakes-the things you did and did not do. Find | | | | by making sure that things remain comfortable |
| ways to fix them. | | | | between the two of you. The last thing you want |
| Go ahead and live your life | | | | is to make your ex feel awkward around you. |
| Get yourself busy with the business of being | | | | Keep things casual |
| yourself. Whatever you do, do not call your ex; | | | | Do not divulge too much. The fact that you are |
| especially not during the first few weeks of your | | | | leading a full and happy life apart from your ex will |
| break up. This is a sensitive time for both of you. | | | | raise some questions on his or her part. At this |
| You clearly need some time apart. Instead, take | | | | point, he or she will be wondering about this new |
| this time to reflect and pursue things that are | | | | creature you have become. You will no doubt get |
| personally rewarding. | | | | your ex intrigued. |